January 31, 2019 | 9:12am
| Updated January 31, 2019 | 10:45am
Amid their tempestuous divorce battle, Jenni “JWoww” Farley has come forward with an open letter accusing estranged husband Roger Mathews of abuse.
In the letter posted on her website, the 32-year-old “Jersey Shore” star claims Mathews has deliberately made their autistic son, Greyson, skip therapies, and fed him food to which he’s “highly allergic.”
“What is your actual truth? What is your reality? Is it the video you took of yourself while driving the children, placing them at risk because you cannot take the camera off of yourself even for a minute while operating a vehicle? Is it the pizza that you fed to our 2 year old son who is highly allergic to gluten and dairy, placing him in serious medical jeopardy?” she wrote. “When I asked you about the food situation, you chose to berate me instead of acknowledging that Greyson’s health is of paramount concern. How dare I be worried about our son’s medical condition? How dare anyone question you about what Greyson eats during your parenting time? It’s only our son’s safety at issue. Apparently, all of his medical professionals are wrong and you know best above all of those who have thoroughly evaluated him.”
JWoww also claimed 43-year-old Mathews, with whom she also shares daughter Meilani, contacted former boyfriends of hers, one of whom had allegedly attempted to extort money from her while another “brutally beat” her so badly she was hospitalized, in order to “inflict harm” on the MTV reality star.
“I confided in you about my painful past as a survivor of domestic violence,” she continued. “How shameful that you used it to beat me down farther. When your own acts of domestic violence against me were questioned, you chose to reach out to this unspeakable person in order to intimidate me. Your attempt to bring this heinous person back into my life (the mother of your children) after he nearly murdered me speak volumes as to who you really are. You are an abuser to the core, Roger Mathews.”
JWoww then referred to the incident in which Mathews was removed from their home in December after she obtained a temporary restraining order against him and alleged that she had found his previous arrest records that he had concealed from her.
“A violent person is who you really are through and through,” she wrote.
At the end of the letter, JWoww posted several videos of her and Mathews. In one video filmed from their in-home Nest camera, Mathews appeared to hit his estranged wife and shove her down to the floor. In another, Mathews recorded a video of himself bragging about an affair he had with another woman shortly after JWoww gave birth to Greyson. There is also footage of JWoww throwing an object at Mathews while he held their son.
“I am disappointed that I threw a vacuum about 15 feet away out of frustration but candidly being taunted in this manner where you speak about craving another woman’s ‘pu**y’ just after I gave birth to our son was simply appalling,” she wrote. “I had been cleaning glass you shattered in the kitchen. You however try to make it appear as if I broke the glass by throwing it at you and grey. You don’t see that in the video you ‘create’. You don’t see Grey upset in the video. You are of course as cool as a cucumber, chilling out without making a move. Just provoking and ridiculing me, trying to get a rise out of me.”
“So you have embarked on a crusade to abuse me and place me and the kids in harm’s way.”
She ended her letter by declaring she’d be a “victim no longer” and would stay strong for their two kids.
“They will not grow up watching their mother being a victim of domestic violence … Roger, know this here and for always – my kindness should never again [be] mistaken for weakness,” she wrote.
Mathews’ rep told Page Six they wouldn’t be commenting at this time.
Mathews, however, previously claimed that JWoww had made up a “fake story” in order to obtain the restraining order.
“Im [sic] sorry that it has come to this. Find one human on planet earth who says I didn’t fight for my family,” he captioned a video shared to his Instagram in December. “You will not find them. I will survive this storm and I am now dedicated to complete transparency so that justice may prevail in the end.”
